The night before my 31st birthday and five years into our relationship, whilst walking up a hill from our flat in Sevenoaks for a romantic meal for two, my now wonderful husband, dropped down on one knee and proposed.
It was an amusing proposal to say the least. I had thought it might happen during a beautiful trip to Rome a few months earlier. Three days into the break we sat sipping cocktails on a swing seat made for two on the roof garden of our hotel, which overlooked the whole of the city. The sun was setting making all the buildings glow a warm, deep yellow. Now, this, I thought, is the perfect moment....anytime now....oooh nervous(!)....before draining my drink, turning to Brett with a look of resignation and impatience and acknowledging that 'it's not going to happen on this trip then?!' He turned to me with a smile and said 'Nope, but I DO have a plan'...
His plan, was on reflection, more thought out than any rooftop garden in Rome - pah - who needs such props anyway..! So, four months later as we walked up the hill on our way to my birthday meal, I noticed that Brett was suddenly limping. 'Are you okay?' I asked. 'No actually,' he said 'I think I've hurt my leg in the gym'. He then made several feeble attempts at demonstrating what appeared to be some sort of weight lifting squat, which to be honest I thought slightly strange and unnecessary. Little did I know it was with the intention of 'dropping to one knee' but passing cars were putting him off. Almost at the top of the hill and almost out of time, he panicked, faked a stumble and fell to his knee, clutching it overly dramatically whilst groaning 'my knee, my knee'. I eyed him somewhat concerned and somewhat suspiciously (he wasn't a great actor), before beaming with delight as he looked up, no longer in pretend pain and finally asked me to be his wife!
The next day on my birthday itself, we caught the train to London's Hatton Garden and chose my engagement ring which he then presented to me over a glass of champagne in a cocktail bar in Covent Garden. It was a weekend I won't forget and far more perfect than I could have imagined.
Fast forward, one house move, one wedding, two children, one bump and nine years later and my 40th birthday is only days away. Brett and I discussed present ideas and an eternity ring seemed the most special and fitting gift, also in celebration of the impending birth of our third and final child.
So, the trip to London was planned to visit Hatton Garden once more with the view to finding the perfect ring. As we were taking the children we decided to combine it with a trip to the London Aquarium in the afternoon after ring shopping in the morning. The children were beyond excited, especially as we approached London itself and stared in awe at the impressive landscape, noses and hands pressed to the train window. We arrived in Charing Cross and took the underground to Chancery Lane station before taking the short stroll to Hatton Garden. It was just as I had remembered it. We lunched in Costa Coffee which had Brett and I slightly on the edge as Grace in particular decided to pull out her bag of three year old tricks and behave like a little diva for most of the time in there whilst we did our best to appease, control and reprimand her. Other customers eyed my bump (no doubt wondering what madness we were getting ourselves into) whilst I supressed the urge to strap my daughter to a chair with a bag over my head.
On the upside, Grace's diva moment worked in my favour as I slipped away after mutual agreement to do a recce of the jewellery shops. It didn't take long to find the right shop. Fittingly called 'Eternity' and ironically right next door to the jewellers we'd bought my engagement ring from, I was presented with a beautiful court shaped half eternity band that sparkled seductively, matched my other rings and fitted perfectly. I rushed back excitedly to Costa to retrieve Brett and the children who were thankfully now more settled. Keen after the last hour of stress to get the job done and despite being a little over budget, Brett bought the ring and we left Hatton Garden lighter in the pocket but happy.
After a quick visit to show Joshua and Grace Daddy's office in Holborn, we caught a cab to South Bank and escaped the queues to get into the aquarium due to our priority entrance tickets. The children spent the next few hours marvelling at the variety of exotic fish, eyes wide as we passed through the glass tunnel of the aquarium that housed a number of large sharks, a sea turtle and several sting rays to name but a few. We moved onto the open pool and leaned over to watch the rays swim past, playing to the crowds as they did so by sticking their bodies out of the water and seeming to wave. Joshua bravely held a crab and we ended our visit with a quick look at the penguin tank as the penguins playfully whizzed passed our noses and tapped their beaks on the glass to say hello.
The London Aquarium..
As the day came to an end, we spent some time enjoying the street performers on the South Bank before heading to the hustle and bustle of Covent Garden for dinner at Maxwells, stopping periodically to take in the various human statues (including an impressive Mr Bean).
Finally, we collapsed happily in the restaurant and soaked up the lively atmosphere while the children chowed down on spaghetti, garlic bread and ice cream. The waiter presented them with helium balloons which we tied to the backs of their chairs and managed to keep them in their seats by telling them their chairs might take off if they got down. Later, Grace was to lose her balloon into the night sky and amongst heartbroken tears her beautiful big brother kindly gave up his own to sooth her - a proud moment for Brett and I to witness. Back in the restaurant Brett chose a moment to allow me to try my ring on (just as he had all those nine years ago but this time amongst the chaos of spaghetti stained napkins, apple juice and grubby faced children). He slid it onto my finger whilst announcing that his hands were 'covered in burger juice'. Who said romance was dead?!
It was a brilliant end to a wonderful day and as we arrived home late into the evening and carried our exhausted sleepy children to bed I rubbed my bump lovingly and couldn't think of a moment when I had felt more content.....
Trains and taxis..
Enjoying the sights of South Bank...

The night before my 31st birthday and five years into our relationship, whilst walking up a hill from our flat in Sevenoaks for a romantic meal for two, my now wonderful husband, dropped down on one knee and proposed.
It was an amusing proposal to say the least. I had thought it might happen during a beautiful trip to Rome a few months earlier. Three days into the break we sat sipping cocktails on a swing seat made for two on the roof garden of our hotel, which overlooked the whole of the city. The sun was setting making all the buildings glow a warm, deep yellow. Now, this, I thought, is the perfect moment....anytime now....oooh nervous(!)....before draining my drink, turning to Brett with a look of resignation and impatience and acknowledging that 'it's not going to happen on this trip then?!' He turned to me with a smile and said 'Nope, but I DO have a plan'...
His plan, was on reflection, more thought out than any rooftop garden in Rome - pah - who needs such props anyway..! So, four months later as we walked up the hill on our way to my birthday meal, I noticed that Brett was suddenly limping. 'Are you okay?' I asked. 'No actually,' he said 'I think I've hurt my leg in the gym'. He then made several feeble attempts at demonstrating what appeared to be some sort of weight lifting squat, which to be honest I thought slightly strange and unnecessary. Little did I know it was with the intention of 'dropping to one knee' but passing cars were putting him off. Almost at the top of the hill and almost out of time, he panicked, faked a stumble and fell to his knee, clutching it overly dramatically whilst groaning 'my knee, my knee'. I eyed him somewhat concerned and somewhat suspiciously (he wasn't a great actor), before beaming with delight as he looked up, no longer in pretend pain and finally asked me to be his wife!
The next day on my birthday itself, we caught the train to London's Hatton Garden and chose my engagement ring which he then presented to me over a glass of champagne in a cocktail bar in Covent Garden. It was a weekend I won't forget and far more perfect than I could have imagined.
Fast forward, one house move, one wedding, two children, one bump and nine years later and my 40th birthday is only days away. Brett and I discussed present ideas and an eternity ring seemed the most special and fitting gift, also in celebration of the impending birth of our third and final child.
So, the trip to London was planned to visit Hatton Garden once more with the view to finding the perfect ring. As we were taking the children we decided to combine it with a trip to the London Aquarium in the afternoon after ring shopping in the morning. The children were beyond excited, especially as we approached London itself and stared in awe at the impressive landscape, noses and hands pressed to the train window. We arrived in Charing Cross and took the underground to Chancery Lane station before taking the short stroll to Hatton Garden. It was just as I had remembered it. We lunched in Costa Coffee which had Brett and I slightly on the edge as Grace in particular decided to pull out her bag of three year old tricks and behave like a little diva for most of the time in there whilst we did our best to appease, control and reprimand her. Other customers eyed my bump (no doubt wondering what madness we were getting ourselves into) whilst I supressed the urge to strap my daughter to a chair with a bag over my head.
On the upside, Grace's diva moment worked in my favour as I slipped away after mutual agreement to do a recce of the jewellery shops. It didn't take long to find the right shop. Fittingly called 'Eternity' and ironically right next door to the jewellers we'd bought my engagement ring from, I was presented with a beautiful court shaped half eternity band that sparkled seductively, matched my other rings and fitted perfectly. I rushed back excitedly to Costa to retrieve Brett and the children who were thankfully now more settled. Keen after the last hour of stress to get the job done and despite being a little over budget, Brett bought the ring and we left Hatton Garden lighter in the pocket but happy.
After a quick visit to show Joshua and Grace Daddy's office in Holborn, we caught a cab to South Bank and escaped the queues to get into the aquarium due to our priority entrance tickets. The children spent the next few hours marvelling at the variety of exotic fish, eyes wide as we passed through the glass tunnel of the aquarium that housed a number of large sharks, a sea turtle and several sting rays to name but a few. We moved onto the open pool and leaned over to watch the rays swim past, playing to the crowds as they did so by sticking their bodies out of the water and seeming to wave. Joshua bravely held a crab and we ended our visit with a quick look at the penguin tank as the penguins playfully whizzed passed our noses and tapped their beaks on the glass to say hello.
The London Aquarium..
As the day came to an end, we spent some time enjoying the street performers on the South Bank before heading to the hustle and bustle of Covent Garden for dinner at Maxwells, stopping periodically to take in the various human statues (including an impressive Mr Bean).
Finally, we collapsed happily in the restaurant and soaked up the lively atmosphere while the children chowed down on spaghetti, garlic bread and ice cream. The waiter presented them with helium balloons which we tied to the backs of their chairs and managed to keep them in their seats by telling them their chairs might take off if they got down. Later, Grace was to lose her balloon into the night sky and amongst heartbroken tears her beautiful big brother kindly gave up his own to sooth her - a proud moment for Brett and I to witness. Back in the restaurant Brett chose a moment to allow me to try my ring on (just as he had all those nine years ago but this time amongst the chaos of spaghetti stained napkins, apple juice and grubby faced children). He slid it onto my finger whilst announcing that his hands were 'covered in burger juice'. Who said romance was dead?!
It was a brilliant end to a wonderful day and as we arrived home late into the evening and carried our exhausted sleepy children to bed I rubbed my bump lovingly and couldn't think of a moment when I had felt more content.....
Trains and taxis..
Enjoying the sights of South Bank...